A Road To ...

Love on the Beach, 1970

Thu, 26 Aug 2010 13:26:37 +0800

patriciayague:

by photographer Mark Patiky.
This photo appeared in the December 1970 issue of GQ magazine.

"Stay away from NEGATIVE & TOXIC people at all cost"

Thu, 19 Aug 2010 02:04:00 +0800

“Stay away from NEGATIVE & TOXIC people at all cost”

- My Rule Number 3

"Pareto’s 80-20"

Thu, 19 Aug 2010 02:02:11 +0800

“Pareto’s 80-20”

- My Rule Number 2 ( for productivity )

"No appointments"

Thu, 19 Aug 2010 02:01:23 +0800

“No appointments”

- My Rule Number 1

Another step! Another step!

Fri, 13 Aug 2010 11:13:00 +0800

I’m very happy right now. I’ve made the right decision (so as they say).

I will be doing what I love to do instead of stuck in the cubical while facing the computer with the a/c blasting right on the top of my head with that whirring noise to put up with for the whole day - every fucking single day for 5 days a week from 9am to 6pm.

So, what are my plans for the next 6 - 18 months? Honestly speaking, I will enjoy my life and come as it may. These a few that I got in my mind right now.

-Swim & Jogging - at least 2 times a week

-Play golf - I will be learning how to play starting from coming Monday.

-Work less than 20hrs a week but work towards the financial independence! ( Dreaming.. yeah.. I am entitled to dream!)

-Take care of my physical health by eating healthy, eating the right food. ( Wait! Hold on a sec! What about my mental health? How am I going to take care of it? Ahh well… things will fall into places & time will tell. I’m not worried)

-Read books - I’ve got whole list of books to read ( this is my forever going project)

-Get more active in my volunteer project - It’s been 2yrs baby!!!! I’m very very happy with this project.

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Following are things that I’ve learnt from the past months

- NEVER EVER EVER EVER work for the Rude-uncouth-nasty-calculative-dirty people

- We have to right to speak up for ourselves. We have the right to defend ourselves. We have the right to tell the mistakes of our parents and our bosses.

- We do not have to put up with nasty people. We can move on with our happy lives. Never let these “toxic” people to affect your life.

- If you take care of your actions ( speak right words, think right thoughts & do right things), the universe will take care of you.

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My immediate actions for the happiness

- Coconut soufflé at Laurent

- Japanese Katsu Curry with friends

- will be going to Bird Park to admire those Avian Creatures

- buying gloves for golf

Oh , one important rule that I will start to practice

* I will not make any appointments with anyone from today onwards. Dear friends, Check with me a few hours before if you feel like you wanna meet up with me. If it’s flexible for both of us, I will definitely meet up with you.*

loveyourchaos: ntima:theuniverseunderground:(via...

Wed, 14 Jul 2010 16:33:45 +0800

loveyourchaos:

ntima:theuniverseunderground:(via ohwonderland)

Paroles Paroles

Thu, 27 May 2010 01:13:32 +0800

Paroles Paroles

You said it’s alright … You said it’s over, I...

Thu, 27 May 2010 01:03:32 +0800

You said it’s alright … You said it’s over, I know it’s over, It’s no longer our story

Damn your eyes ( muffin… Damn your eyes, for taking my...

Thu, 27 May 2010 00:56:53 +0800

Damn your eyes ( muffin… Damn your eyes, for taking my breath away)

abagond: (via maxshreck)

Wed, 26 May 2010 16:12:26 +0800

abagond:

(via maxshreck)

abagond: cavalierflair: (via hiseverlastinglove, allietate)

Wed, 26 May 2010 16:02:16 +0800

abagond:

cavalierflair:

(via hiseverlastinglove, allietate)

(via loveyourchaos)

Wed, 26 May 2010 15:52:03 +0800

(via loveyourchaos)

"Relationships are either growing or dying. There is no middle ground. This is one of the governing..."

Sun, 23 May 2010 10:14:35 +0800

“Relationships are either growing or dying. There is no middle ground. This is one of the governing principles of the universe. Everything is constantly changing. How liberating it must be to have nothing to hide. When people are willing to reveal themselves to each other in a spirit of honesty, acceptance, and reverence, they liberate each other from the insanity of isolation and loneliness. Who doesn’t want a relationship in which they can tell everything?”

- The Seven Levels of Itimacy, Kelly Matthew, Beacon Publishing, 2007. (via sayaye)

It’s Light .. Baby.. It’s Light! (via...

Tue, 18 May 2010 22:41:29 +0800

It’s Light .. Baby.. It’s Light!

(via interestingfavorite)

fuckyeahphotoart: by Dominique Amphonesinh

Sun, 16 May 2010 12:26:43 +0800

fuckyeahphotoart:

by Dominique Amphonesinh

gojira: “Girls, protect yourself. Demand your partner to wear a...

Sun, 16 May 2010 12:26:27 +0800

gojira:

“Girls, protect yourself. Demand your partner to wear a condom”

"I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big..."

Fri, 14 May 2010 09:07:20 +0800

““I am good, but not an angel. I do sin,
but I am not the devil. I am just
a small girl in a big world trying to
find someone to love.””

- Marilyn Monroe (via laissez-faire) (via svanessah, kari-shma)

"You can’t force yourself to forget something, because the only way you can really move on is when..."

Wed, 12 May 2010 16:34:46 +0800

“You can’t force yourself to forget something, because the only way you can really move on is when something better comes into your life and fills that empty space.”

- My version of a quote by Vea Mariz (via dearjournal)

Human life is .. so fragile. I was talking to Mrs.P and wished her happy birthday and she told me a...

Mon, 03 May 2010 00:05:01 +0800

Human life is .. so fragile.

I was talking to Mrs.P and wished her happy birthday and she told me a very good news that she is pregnant. The very best birthday present ever ( I believe).

I wonder if my mother had felt the same when she was pregnant with me. I wonder if all mothers feel the same when they are pregnant. I wonder .. I wonder.. I wonder how my mom gave birth to me exactly 27 years ago. I weighted 9lbs. I was such a big baby and my mom gave birth to me ‘naturally’. It must have been a fucking painful experience which I will never put myself into.

Here I am with no desire to live and wishing and hoping that I’d leave this entire life soon enough so that I can start something ‘unknown’ on the other side of the death.

The only thing keeping me going is .. my mom. As long as she is alive, I’ll live for her to be a good daughter ( I am still trying but I know that I am no good).

And here I am, weeping in silence. Wish for May 3rd - I wish I don’t wake up tomorrow.

"Everyone’s heartbroken nowadays. But I mean, we all just have to move on. What’s the point of..."

Sun, 11 Apr 2010 10:18:58 +0800

“Everyone’s heartbroken nowadays. But I mean, we all just have to move on. What’s the point of reminiscing when you know the person is no longer worth while; when they’re no longer who they used to be? When their heart is somewhere else? Do you think they still care for you, or are still thinking about you? Because frankly, they don’t.”

- (via eletheowl) (via bloodisthenewblackk) (via brandydarling)